Question
I have a fiance and I love someone else alot. My fiance just visited me with her dad and she is now living for a small period of time with me. The girl I love alot knows about my situation and she can’t accept it but I love her alot. I dont want to marry her. I really don’t know what to do. I am planning to leave Uk or go on hidding. I can’t stand all this. My parents will be worried for my missing and they will be very angry. I don’t know what to do please help me out. The other girl is not willing to let me have her and my fiance. I don’t know how to make her, and I don’t want to marry. I saw my fiance for the first time and I can’t stand all this.
Answer
You have all the right to change your mind and not marry your fiancé. No one — not even your parents have the right to force you to marry someone you do not want to. You should just politely refuse the marriage (I am assuming that the nikah has not taken place).
Answered by: Dr. Shehzad Saleem
Date: 2015-01-13