1.0Al-Mawrid Querieshttps://al-mawrid.org/questions-enadminhttps://al-mawrid.org/questions-en/author/admin/rich600338<blockquote class="wp-embedded-content" data-secret="heLTYjrwPk"><a href="https://al-mawrid.org/questions-en/bisexuality/">Bisexuality</a></blockquote><iframe sandbox="allow-scripts" security="restricted" src="https://al-mawrid.org/questions-en/bisexuality/embed/#?secret=heLTYjrwPk" width="600" height="338" title="“Bisexuality” — Al-Mawrid Queries" data-secret="heLTYjrwPk" frameborder="0" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" scrolling="no" class="wp-embedded-content"></iframe><script> /*! This file is auto-generated */ !function(d,l){"use strict";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&"undefined"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!/[^a-zA-Z0-9]/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret="'+t.secret+'"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret="'+t.secret+'"]'),c=new RegExp("^https?:$","i"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display="none";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute("style"),"height"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):"link"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute("src")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener("message",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener("DOMContentLoaded",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll("iframe.wp-embedded-content"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute("data-secret"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+="#?secret="+t,e.setAttribute("data-secret",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:"ready",secret:t},"*")},!1)))}(window,document); //# sourceURL=https://al-mawrid.org/questions-en/wp-includes/js/wp-embed.min.js </script> https://al-mawrid.org/questions-en/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/Queries-768x432.png600338Assalām o Alaykum,I'm someone from Pakistan. I have known since long that I am a bisexual. I might be a gay but since I am married and can have sex with my wife, I am bound to say that I am a bi. I am 31 and a Muslim. I have listened to you a lot of time on aaj tv and other channels and am pretty impressed with your knowledge, style, research and vision. I'm sending this mail with a strong belief that you will lead me somewhere positively. I just need to ask if Islam addresses the issue of homosexuality.It’s been such a pain for me all life long. I have never been happy with this trait of mine. I wanted to be interested in females so that I could love my wife at least and give her all the pleasures of life. That feeling of discontentment led me to masturbation, watching pornographic material and relations (mild ones) with a couple of males. I tried to stop myself many times but my subconscious always said, "Why stop". I mean straight people stop from these sexual acts because they know that they will get married and will get all the sexual pleasures then so why see here and there and why resort to masturbation or so. But in my case, I knew that I shall not get a blissful life even after marriage so why stop from masturbation and other similar acts. Now when I am married, I can have sex with my wife but its not a blissful sex. I feel discontentment every time. I discharge very quickly and sometimes lose interest during intercourse. Its not that I tease her or don’t fulfil her rights. She is happy in every respect but I feel that I would have been more in love, more attracted to her and my life would have been more blissful if I were a straight guy. Now I have got a cute little baby girl and every time I get engaged in any gay stuff, I feel like I am doing a crime. I always think of her at that time and feel bad about me being gay. I remember I used to get attracted to males from the very childhood. Is it an inborn trait or comes afterwards? My mother got divorced in my early childhood. I have not even seen my father yet. Does this fact have something to do with it? It has not even like I was deprived of anything. I am highly educated and working in a renowned organization at a good post earning a handsome amount of salary al-humdu lillāh. I don’t know where I went wrong and this gay/bi stuff dropped in. I know I have gone pretty far with it but I would still love to get rid of it. Please tell me a solution. And please don’t take it as the last mail as I might need to go into more detail after your reply. Please don’t neglect this mail on the basis that it contains a topic not being discussed publicly. I tell you it is increasing day by day. There are many Pakistani discussion forums on net where I used to be too and such people are at large openly discussing and indulging in this activity without knowing if it is fine for them or not. They just take it for granted and don’t think about getting rid of it.I would be eagerly waiting for a reply from your side!Regards,