{"id":5916,"date":"2024-07-10T07:41:47","date_gmt":"2024-07-10T07:41:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-mawrid.org\/questions-en\/2024\/07\/10\/marrying-ones-maternal-aunt\/"},"modified":"2024-07-10T07:41:47","modified_gmt":"2024-07-10T07:41:47","slug":"marrying-ones-maternal-aunt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-mawrid.org\/questions-en\/marrying-ones-maternal-aunt\/","title":{"rendered":"Marrying One&#8217;s Maternal Aunt"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3>Question<\/h3>\n<p>Can one marry the step sister  of one\u2019s mother? Suppose if the mother of a boy and his aunt share  their father but not mothers. The girl is younger than the boy and both  are in love. They do not know when it started as they were brought up in  a same house and have been living together since childhood. They do not  do anything wrong and just love each other. The boy feels that he is in  very painful situation. If it is not permissible for him to marry his  aunt then how can he stop himself from thinking about her in this way?  How will he be able to live a good life according to Islam?<\/p>\n<h3>Answer<\/h3>\n<p>According to the clear and decisive directives of the Qur\u2019an the sister of one\u2019s mother (<em>khalah<\/em>) cannot be taken into marriage. It does not make any difference whether the aunt (<em>khalah<\/em>) and mother of a boy have common father or mother or both. Marriage with one\u2019s <em>khalah<\/em>  is incest. Please note that it is not allowable in any religious  tradition and any notable human culture. Now what if one develops such a  feeling for one&#8217;s sister, mother, daughter, or <em>khalah<\/em>? I think  he needs to understand that it is not only irreligious but immoral. He  may never entertain such thoughts. If they continue to incur he should  consult good psychologists or psychoanalyst. They may be of good help in  this regard. <\/p>\n<p><strong>Answered by:<\/strong> Tariq Mahmood Hashmi<\/p>\n<p><strong>Date:<\/strong> 2015-03-03<\/p>\n<button class=\"simplefavorite-button\" data-postid=\"5916\" data-siteid=\"1\" data-groupid=\"1\" data-favoritecount=\"0\" style=\"\">Favorite <i class=\"sf-icon-star-empty\"><\/i><\/button>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Can one marry the step sister  of one\u2019s mother? Suppose if the mother of a boy and his aunt share  their father but not mothers. The girl is younger than the boy and both  are in love. They do not know when it started as they were brought up in  a same house and have been living together since childhood. They do not  do anything wrong and just love each other. The boy feels that he is in  very painful situation. If it is not permissible for him to marry his  aunt then how can he stop himself from thinking about her in this way?  How will he be able to live a good life according to Islam?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":14147,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1162],"tags":[1168,1460],"class_list":["post-5916","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-social-issues","tag-marriage","tag-step-sister"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Marrying One&#039;s Maternal Aunt - Al-Mawrid Queries<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/al-mawrid.org\/questions-en\/marrying-ones-maternal-aunt\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Marrying One&#039;s Maternal Aunt - Al-Mawrid Queries\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Can one marry the step sister of one\u2019s mother? 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