{"id":6132,"date":"2024-07-10T07:42:28","date_gmt":"2024-07-10T07:42:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-mawrid.org\/questions-en\/2024\/07\/10\/troubled-marriage\/"},"modified":"2024-07-10T13:27:03","modified_gmt":"2024-07-10T13:27:03","slug":"troubled-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-mawrid.org\/questions-en\/troubled-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"Troubled Marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3>Question<\/h3>\n<p>My  married life is too much disturbed. My husband is very much angry man.  Most of the time I feel that we are near to divorce but we have three  kids. I pray a lot then for a few days I feel relaxed. Some people say  that your relation will not remain (God forbid). They say that an enemy  is doing black magic for your seperation. I don\u2019t believe in black  magic. I want a happy married life for me and specialy for my kids. They  can\u2019t bear. Please suggest me what should I do. I am in very serious  trouble. I try a lot to make my husband happy. I pray a lot and offer <em>navafil<\/em> a lot.<\/p>\n<h3>Answer<\/h3>\n<p>I  am sorry to read about your plight. As for the black magic issue, just  pray to God that He keep you in His protection and try to remain in a  permanent state of wudu.<br \/> As for the marriage problems, please try  your best to put up with your husband&#8217;s anger by not reacting and in  spite of his bad behavior try to gain a moral victory by conducting  yourself with kindness. Take it as a challenge. Try to please him by  giving him gifts he likes or cooking food he likes. In short think of  ways in which you show a superior moral character. This of course is not  easy and requires a lot of patience. Offering the namaz especially the  tahajjud namaz is very useful in this regard. God has designated this  time to be a very special and blessed one. It will give you patience and  inner strength to cope with the situation. Please also look up: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.monthly-renaissance.com\/issue\/query.aspx?id=741\">http:\/\/www.monthly-renaissance.com\/issue\/query.aspx?id=741<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Answered by:<\/strong> Dr. Shehzad Saleem<\/p>\n<p><strong>Date:<\/strong> 2015-01-09<\/p>\n<button class=\"simplefavorite-button\" data-postid=\"6132\" data-siteid=\"1\" data-groupid=\"1\" data-favoritecount=\"0\" style=\"\">Favorite <i class=\"sf-icon-star-empty\"><\/i><\/button>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My  married life is too much disturbed. My husband is very much angry man.  Most of the time I feel that we are near to divorce but we have three  kids. I pray a lot then for a few days I feel relaxed. Some people say  that your relation will not remain (God forbid). They say that an enemy  is doing black magic for your seperation. I don\u2019t believe in black  magic. I want a happy married life for me and specialy for my kids. They  can\u2019t bear. Please suggest me what should I do. I am in very serious  trouble. I try a lot to make my husband happy. 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