{"id":6233,"date":"2024-07-10T07:42:40","date_gmt":"2024-07-10T07:42:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-mawrid.org\/questions-en\/2024\/07\/10\/breaking-a-relationship\/"},"modified":"2024-07-10T13:27:00","modified_gmt":"2024-07-10T13:27:00","slug":"breaking-a-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-mawrid.org\/questions-en\/breaking-a-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"Breaking A Relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3>Question<\/h3>\n<p>I have a fiance and I  love someone else alot. My fiance just visited me with her dad and she  is now living for a small period of time with me. The girl I love alot  knows about my situation and she can\u2019t accept it but I love her alot. I  dont want to marry her. I really don\u2019t know what to do. I am planning to  leave Uk or go on hidding. I can\u2019t stand all this. My parents will be  worried for my missing and they will be very angry. I don\u2019t know what to  do please help me out. The other girl is not willing to let me have her  and my fiance. I don\u2019t know how to make her, and I don\u2019t want to marry.  I saw my fiance for the first time and I can\u2019t stand all this. <\/p>\n<h3>Answer<\/h3>\n<p>You  have all the right to change your mind and not marry your fianc\u00e9. No  one &#8212; not even your parents have the right to force you to marry  someone you do not want to. You should just politely refuse the marriage  (I am assuming that the nikah has not taken place).<\/p>\n<p><strong>Answered by:<\/strong> Dr. Shehzad Saleem<\/p>\n<p><strong>Date:<\/strong> 2015-01-13<\/p>\n<button class=\"simplefavorite-button\" data-postid=\"6233\" data-siteid=\"1\" data-groupid=\"1\" data-favoritecount=\"0\" style=\"\">Favorite <i class=\"sf-icon-star-empty\"><\/i><\/button>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have a fiance and I  love someone else alot. My fiance just visited me with her dad and she  is now living for a small period of time with me. The girl I love alot  knows about my situation and she can\u2019t accept it but I love her alot. I  dont want to marry her. I really don\u2019t know what to do. I am planning to  leave Uk or go on hidding. I can\u2019t stand all this. My parents will be  worried for my missing and they will be very angry. I don\u2019t know what to  do please help me out. The other girl is not willing to let me have her  and my fiance. I don\u2019t know how to make her, and I don\u2019t want to marry.  I saw my fiance for the first time and I can\u2019t stand all this. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":14147,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1162],"tags":[2034,1690,2033,1558,1342],"class_list":["post-6233","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-social-issues","tag-emotion","tag-fiance","tag-girl-friend","tag-love","tag-relationship"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Breaking A Relationship - Al-Mawrid Queries<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/al-mawrid.org\/questions-en\/breaking-a-relationship\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Breaking A Relationship - Al-Mawrid Queries\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"I have a fiance and I love someone else alot. 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