{"id":6519,"date":"2024-07-10T07:43:26","date_gmt":"2024-07-10T07:43:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/al-mawrid.org\/questions-en\/2024\/07\/10\/advising-parents\/"},"modified":"2024-07-10T13:21:01","modified_gmt":"2024-07-10T13:21:01","slug":"advising-parents","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/al-mawrid.org\/questions-en\/advising-parents\/","title":{"rendered":"Advising Parents"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3>Question<\/h3>\n<p>I have come to know that my parents are involved in <em>har\u0101m<\/em>  earnings. I have tried to explain it to them but they didn\u2019t accept my  arguments. I am staying away from my parents for my studies. They send  me money for my needs. This puts me into dilemma to recognize whether  this money is <em>har\u0101m<\/em> or <em>hal\u0101l.<\/em> What they send might partially or fully contain this <em>har\u0101m<\/em>.<\/p>\n<h3>Answer<\/h3>\n<p>It  is a very a cherished act to be alive to the requirements of the  Shari`ah. But when it comes to the situation similar to one you are  facing one needs to carefully handle the problem. We are required by the  Almighty to put such exhortations before others very politely and very  wisely. Especially dealing with your parents is a very sensitive matter.  You are required by the Almighty to be very polite and respectful to  them. And you must not inter into heated arguments nor do you need to  break relation with them. You are only required to put your concern in a  very befitting manner and constantly pray to the Almighty to guide them  to the right path.<\/p>\n<p>As  regards the use of the money they send to you and your concern on the  nature of their earnings, I would suggest that you need to use it. The  concern you feel is very positive but it must not drive you refusing  their aid until you are not independent. They have been burdened with  the responsibility of extending financial support to you and it is they  who will be held accountable for their earning. However, if you feel  that your refusal may bring them to quit the Har\u0101m means of earning you  may do so. But you are not going to be held accountable until you feel  the same way and use it out of compulsion. However, feeling easier on  being showered by money earned through ignoble means should be avoided.<\/p>\n<p>At  last I would reiterate please to keep praying to the Almighty that He  lead them to the right path and keep your righteous spirits alive.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Answered by:<\/strong> Tariq Mahmood Hashmi<\/p>\n<p><strong>Date:<\/strong> 2015-01-29<\/p>\n<button class=\"simplefavorite-button\" data-postid=\"6519\" data-siteid=\"1\" data-groupid=\"1\" data-favoritecount=\"0\" style=\"\">Favorite <i class=\"sf-icon-star-empty\"><\/i><\/button>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have come to know that my parents are involved in <em>har\u0101m<\/em>  earnings. I have tried to explain it to them but they didn\u2019t accept my  arguments. I am staying away from my parents for my studies. They send  me money for my needs. This puts me into dilemma to recognize whether  this money is <em>har\u0101m<\/em> or <em>hal\u0101l.<\/em> What they send might partially or fully contain this <em>har\u0101m<\/em>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":14147,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1162],"tags":[1365,1457,1463],"class_list":["post-6519","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-social-issues","tag-haram","tag-money","tag-parents"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Advising Parents - Al-Mawrid Queries<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/al-mawrid.org\/questions-en\/advising-parents\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Advising Parents - Al-Mawrid Queries\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"I have come to know that my parents are involved in har\u0101m earnings. 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